As I set up my calendar for the month, I select a quote I’ve found that speaks to me. I write it in my planner and leave space below it to capture phrases I hear or read that speak to me and relate to the quote. I found this practice centers me throughout the month, and helps me be more present in my conversations, meetings, and readings. For August 2025, my quote was: “Sunshine.”
Only one or two other times have I picked 1 word for my monthly phrase. I saw many phrases but they felt forced, judgy, and heavy. Or, perhaps that’s what I was feeling all arAs I set up my calendar for the month, I select a quote I’ve found that speaks to me. I write it in my planner and leave space below it to capture phrases I hear or read that speak to me and relate to the quote. I found this practice centers me throughout the month, and helps me be more present in my conversations, meetings, and readings. For August 2025, my quote was: “Sunshine.”
Only one or two other times have I picked 1 word for my monthly phrase. I saw many phrases but they felt forced, judgy, and heavy. Or, perhaps that’s what I was feeling all around me and it tainted what I saw? So, I sat, reflected, and sensed my phrase from within. Sunshine arose, and it felt good in every way. Brightness to invade the dark corners. Vitamins for my body. Warmth for my soul.
Here are the quotes, lyrics, and phrases that that caught the attention of my head and heart as I lived in the “sunshine”:
- A radiant, glitter-covered menace of joy
- But a holy thing to love what death can touch
- Grief dares us to love one more
- An ongoing exchange with the great body of life
- We are most alive at the threshold between loss and revelation
- We are designed to encounter this life with amazement and wonder, not resignation and endurance
- Everything is a gift, and nothing lasts
- Grief is akin to praise
- I don’t want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just to the length of it; I want to have lived the width as well
- Finally on my way to yes
- Worth and welcome
- Holy ground of sorrow
- Soul activism
- Embrace the amazing chance we have to be alive
- I consider eternity as another possibility
- I want to step through the door full of curiosity wondering
August, as it always does, brought relaxation with our annual family beach vacation. Sunshine fully present around me.
I welcomed the daybreak of sunshine a few mornings on the beach, standing with others like the angels each day in the movie “City of Angels.” Cool blues and lavenders snuck across the morning sky as the gold slowly merged. I protected against sun’s fierceness slathered in SPF under a tent and in the ocean. Bold yellow at noon-day peak. I honored its spirit at day’s end. Oranges and pinks as the bold ball sank at sunset.
The stillness in the sun’s presence soothed me… and illuminated just how depleted I was.
Tense.
Worn out.
Forlorn.
Frustrated.
Angry.
Sad.
Lost.
There was no single cause, more like depletion from a thousand paper cuts.
Tearful clients.
Fearful friends.
Panicked coworkers.
Ailing loved ones.
So many in my community unsettled, vulnerable, broken, and in need.
But the sunshine persisted, as she always does.
Light in the darkness.
Nourishment.
Hope.
I soaked it all up.
Recharged.
Recentered.
Renewed.
Reinvested.
Reinvigorated.
No, the sunshine didn’t change the factors that weighted down my bone and being. But her rays bore in and bolstered me. Filling up the marrow of optimism in my bones.
My time in the sun’s cocoon reoriented me… rather, reminded me that rest is restorative. And essential. Our nervous systems (brain, body, soul) require time to calibrate, process, and renew—to be still in the frenzy. Staying in hyperdrive or constantly being hypervigilant is not sustainable.
The sun has the moon.
And… with the new day comes new possibilities.